She calls him Mr. Massey. He's looking forward to calling her his wife.
The San Antonio Express-News reports that Etter and her betrothed, who's a former mayor of the town of George West, met about three years ago in a grief counseling group. Both of their spouses had died.
Etter and Massey became bridge partners. They share a love for the San Antonio Spurs.
Massey is a retired lieutenant colonel who spent 26 years in the Air Force. Etter worked at San Antonio City Hall.
Their children are helping with the wedding arrangements.