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Kid in Ad: "One Day My Husband Will Kill Me" Children featured in domestic violence ads

Updated 4:12 PM CDT, Thu, Oct 23, 2008

A domestic violence shelter's new awareness campaign features ads on city buses that show young children alongside disturbing captions such as, "One day my husband will kill me."

 

A domestic violence shelter's new awareness campaign features ads on city buses that show young children alongside disturbing captions such as, "One day my husband will kill me."
 
The ads, which appear on and inside several Dallas buses, are designed to shock people, said Paige Flink, The Family Place's executive director.

"Children are greatly affected by family violence, even though people think it's a man and a woman fighting," Flink said in Thursday's editions of The Dallas Morning News. "Victims get blamed a lot. If you put an adult battered woman (on an ad), some people would blame her. But children are still seen as innocent."

One ad features a smiling young girl who's wearing a tiara next to the "One day my husband will kill me" captions. Another features a boy: "When I grow up, I will beat my wife."

The nonprofit group's ads have prompted a few complaints and two billboard companies refused to accept it, Flink said.

The Family Place, which runs a hot line and provides shelter and counseling to domestic violence victims, was trying a different approach to stop the cycle of abuse. She said most of the women who get help at The Family Place grew up in homes with domestic violence.

There were more than 14,951 family violence offenses and 28 family violence murders reported in Dallas in 2007, according to the Dallas Police Department.

Dan Howard, a Southern Methodist University professor and chairman of SMU's Cox School of Business' marketing department, said the ads are effective even though they might offend some.

"There are some women who will do more to protect their children than they will to protect themselves," he said.

The ads, which started running Oct. 1, will appear through November.

Copyright Associated Press

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  • Kathy Monday, Nov 3 at 12:31 PM FLAG COMMENT I didn't believe it until I saw two of the ads. They are appalling advertisements. What kind of message does this send to children? Be afraid or be a bully? I have a father, brother, nephews, fiancĂ©, and many male friends who most certainly do not fit this generalization these ads depict. There have got to be better ways to get the message through to those in need of assistance and still generate advertising revenue for D ... MORE >
  • James Tuesday, Oct 28 at 12:30 PM FLAG COMMENT women are abusers just like men. More moms kill thier children than men by the national average. The Family Place discriminates against men and they try to destroy families. They accept women who claim abuse that have proof of abuse at all. They will not even speak to men who have been abused. Rather they laugh at you and tell you that a man can not be abused. They help women build false cases against men to help women win cu ... MORE >
  • Eva Monday, Oct 27 at 6:35 AM FLAG COMMENT UCR data are based on police reports, not on findings of fact. All reputable data show that false allegations exceed real incidents. Academic research also shows that women are more likely than men to perpetrate serious IPV. Official child maltreatment data by DHHS and DOJ show that mothers are the main abusers and killers of their children.
  • Danielle Monday, Oct 27 at 12:44 AM FLAG COMMENT So now feminists are using children as pawns to wage war on men. This is so pathetic. I feel sorry for all children who are exposed to this barbaric campaign, but especially boys. I saw the one with the boy saying he will grow up to kill his wife which I found ten times more troubling and sick.
  • howie Friday, Oct 24 at 9:57 PM FLAG COMMENT feminist hate mongering, way to go Paige Flink-

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